Thank you! Your Heirloom Gown Design & Assessment Session is officially on the calendar.


I am truly honored to begin this deeply personal journey with you. This first meeting is where we will begin to bridge history with your future vision. To ensure our collaboration is inspiring and productive from the very start, please review the essential preparation details below.


CRITICAL HEALTH & SAFETY NOTICE

This is the most important note on this page. I have a VERY SEVERE allergy to cat hair that can cause my throat to close, making it difficult to breathe. As I spend the majority of my time in the studio, it must remain a completely safe environment.

  • It is IMPERATIVE that you ensure your heirloom gown and all personal clothing brought into the studio are COMPLETELY FREE of cat hair.
  • I sincerely appreciate your diligence and understanding in this critical matter of health and safety.


Your Essential Design Session Checklist

  1. Your Priceless Heirloom:
  2. Please bring the gown with you. This will allow us to assess its condition, fabric integrity, and unique details together.
  3. Your Trusted Advisors:
  4. This is a special process, and you are welcome to bring up to two trusted guests to share in the experience and offer their support, if needed.
  5. Your Vision & Inspiration:
  6. Please bring any and all visual inspirations you have—photos, sketches, or ideas. If you don't have a clear vision yet, please don't worry. My role as your dress architect is to help you discover the incredible potential hidden within your gown.
  7. The Financial Investment:
  8. At the conclusion of our session, a 50% non-refundable deposit of the total transformation cost is required to begin the work. (The investment begins at $2,500).
  9. Accepted Forms: Credit/Debit Card, Venmo, CashApp, and Cash.


Have More Questions?

For a complete overview of my heirloom process, including the crucial prerequisite of professional preservation, please feel free to revisit the Heirloom Wedding Gowns page.

I am genuinely excited to begin this creative journey with you!


A Gift for the Journey Ahead

As a MindShift Coach, I know the journey to your wedding day is filled with incredible joy... and countless decisions. It's a time when the world's most well-meaning advice, requests, and traditions can quickly become overwhelming.


That’s why I want to offer you a gift. The short audio blog below explores the most powerful, stress-relieving tool I know: The Two-Letter Revolution of "No."


This principle is especially for you. Learning to say a gentle "no" to the things that serve everyone else's vision allows you to create space for a wedding experience that feels joyful, authentic, and true to you and your partner.


Think of this as your permission slip to release the pressure.

I hope it brings you a moment of peace and clarity.


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